The former phone sex op is Thunderpanda, and the former sex trade worker is the other person who runs this blog, who prefers to remain anon.

thunderpanda posted her tits on her blog. thats the best you’ll get. especially if you’re anon.

queendoc:

if you gently insert your finger into a lady’s vagina, and reach back as far as you can, you will find her cervix, which feels, strangely, like a cherry with no stem.

The facts of semen.

Losing a spark is common in long term relationships. When trying new things doesn’t even work, where can you turn? Well, fantasies help, but don’t expect to be able to dive into a threesome headfirst. Ask her what her ultimate fantasy is, and go from there. Role-playing is always fun too, the whole salacious aspect that you’re fucking “someone else” can be a big help in the bedroom. Mastubating for your partner can be fun, and helps to show them how you liked to be touched and handled. And if all that fails, maybe give sex a little break and come back to it with a romantic night out, maybe even a fun hotel room or a road trip, just the two of you. remember Homer and Marge’s trip to get their fridge motor fixed? They discovered the thrill in outdoor sex, and maybe you can too!

I really hope some of the suggestions help and stick, good luck trying to rekindle the spark :)

from a guy or a girl?

in all honesty, its all about comfort in the situation, so make the other person comfortable with you. then just ask! they will either say yes or no, and if they say no, don’t press it, just try and make them more comfortable with the idea of it.

also, give them head first… that always helped me :P

And thanks for an interest in our little blog. Feel free to ask anything related to sex: how to approach the subject, techniques, birthcontrol, ANYTHING that you want to know, we will do our best to answer you.